Saturday, March 17, 2007

Are you really prepared to settle down?

Once, I ever ask someone this question, 'When are you really prepared to settle down? Are you sure you are ready for that given that character of yours?' The reply that I get was, 'Of course, yes yes! But er er... Maybe you are true, I wasn't really prepared to settle yet.'

Seriously, I mean no harm, no sacastism to that person, really. It was probably an awaken lesson served as a reminder to think of one's future; and maybe reputation? When I mean by 'settle down', it does not necessary mean to get married. When a person finally decided to 'settle down', he or she will start to look out for his/her ideal partner. It is not about trying out relationship with one after another and conclude there are no suitable partner in the world for him/her. Yes, we have to understand the fact that we will not be able to get a 100% ideal partner because everyone has his/her shortcomings. But if one decided to get prepared to settle down, it could be difficult too. However, the one great enjoyment that we can achieved is the process of finding the right one for us.

Hope this someone get prepared to 'settle down' soon! All the best! ;)

Quote of the day: Don't ever feel lack of courage to make the first move as it might turned out to be good with no regrets.

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